tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-951974520846291440.post2008450938838969416..comments2023-10-29T02:49:19.552-05:00Comments on makeupHER: How To: Be A Horrible BridesmaidNikki @ makeupHERhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11666068513120384666noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-951974520846291440.post-75543025435730258492014-05-16T13:53:36.606-05:002014-05-16T13:53:36.606-05:00I think if you are already planning on cutting tie...I think if you are already planning on cutting ties with her as soon as the wedding is over, maybe you should just do so now. Why go through with the whole wedding as a bridesmaid, be in her pictures and a part of her memories that will be forever only to have the friendship sour immediately after? Cut your losses now - you will both be better for it in the end, I think.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13019034732577425037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-951974520846291440.post-64821428630951602142014-05-15T21:26:31.707-05:002014-05-15T21:26:31.707-05:00I'm so sorry you've been going through thi...I'm so sorry you've been going through this, and I definitely think you guys should go for the trip to NOLA even if it's just the 3 of you. You girls will have a blast no matter how large or small the group is, plus it may just what the doctor ordered for your friendship. Hopefully it can help her destress and re-focus on her friendships with you girls. <br /><br />While I was planning my wedding, I ate, breathed, and slept everything wedding. However, I did not let it affect my personal relationships. I tried my best to not talk about the wedding unless asked about it, and I always made sure to keep up with what was going on in my friends and family's lives as their lives were still going on regardless of me planning a wedding. I also made sure to be extra sensitive of the expenses I put on the girls and tried to pick a dress that wasn't too pricey, I left it up to them to decide if they wanted professional hair and makeup, and I had a local bachelorette party. It is what it is, and I hope your friend will wake up and not ruin friendships during a stressful time in her life. *hugs*Kate at Green Fashionistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11104665064880942943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-951974520846291440.post-9102998434467565132014-05-15T13:32:38.689-05:002014-05-15T13:32:38.689-05:00I think she's being a bit insensitive about th...I think she's being a bit insensitive about the hair situation and not realizing or appreciating how much the bridesmaids have already had to fork out for the wedding, bachelorette etc. It is a stressful time for her as well which explains why she's putting a lot of pressure on you but hopefully you can talk it through and this doesn't break the relationship. Emily @ Martinis | Bikinishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13771245700613396017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-951974520846291440.post-8998661506879171032014-05-15T10:28:12.530-05:002014-05-15T10:28:12.530-05:00I think in a situation like this that honesty is t...I think in a situation like this that honesty is the best policy, tell her how you are feeling and why you are upset. It will rock the boat, and probably upset her.. but I think you would feel much better letting her know. Don't do it over text though, you should talk to her in person so that nothing can be taken the wrong way via text. Good luck! Sorry you are having to deal with that :(Kenzie Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17331352267901661256noreply@blogger.com